Honor build options and bottles when upgrading

Fixes Homebrew/homebrew#11552.
Closes Homebrew/homebrew#11777.

Signed-off-by: Jack Nagel <jacknagel@gmail.com>

Library/Homebrew/cmd/upgrade.rb

@@ -54,6 +54,7 @@ module Homebrew extend self
 
     installer = FormulaInstaller.new(f, tab)
     installer.show_header = false
+    installer.install_bottle = install_bottle?(f) and tab.used_options.empty?
 
     oh1 "Upgrading #{f.name}"
 

Library/Homebrew/formula_installer.rb

@@ -182,7 +182,12 @@ class FormulaInstaller
 
     args = ARGV.clone
     unless args.include? '--fresh'
-      args.concat tab.used_options unless tab.nil?
+      unless tab.nil?
+        args.concat tab.used_options
+        # FIXME: enforce the download of the non-bottled package
+        # in the spawned Ruby process.
+        args << '--build-from-source'
+      end
       args.uniq! # Just in case some dupes were added
     end